What If It Was Never You? For years, I believed there was something fundamentally wrong with me. I lived with depression and had almost no self-esteem left. I tried medication and counselling, but I still struggled. I didn't understand how much the marriage was affecting the way I felt about myself. If you are living with low self-esteem after abuse, perhaps you have asked yourself a similar question. Why do I feel this way? Hello Resilient Spirits, I was in an abusive relati